my life, my love

Thursday, December 23, 2010

This is not a review.

Not a tutorial.

This is just a ranting post of my thoughts of certain things.

After so much planning of Baby's 21st birthday,ytd came a bad news,kinda expected.

I told her all the plans & she ask me to go ahead & confirmed the cake,saying that she will get money for Baby's father.

& just yesterday,she told me something that kinda pissed me off.

"Yiqi,I think you all go celebrate.Our family just have small celebration can already.Uncle told me that his finances not very good.Business go down & stuff."

In short,pay everything yourself.

Daughter want buy piano immediately can buy,want buy guitar immediately can buy,want learn japanese immediately pay for her.

Son want to celebrate 21st birthday=zero

Even sponsoring 100 to 200 is ok with me,but NONE at all.

Before that,she beautify her plan saying will go studio take photo,make it big & all,building sandcastles in the air.I knew she was "talking crap".

I didnt have high hopes of them sponsoring any money at all.

After knowing her for 4 yrs I know what kind of person she is.
As dupliticious as Iago,but without the intelligence.

Baby & I have a big plan in 2011,& we will make it come true.
I've never seen such parents in my life.
It's really difficult to explain to people the situation.

Perhaps alot of people may think that I'm rude or disrespectful of his parents.
But the fact that,his parents are the reason why we are like this.

Have you ever heard of parents who condemn their own children?

I know almost all parents are good to their children & want to give them the best.
My parents are good parents.
& I really love them.

I used to think that Baby family is really good.
Until all the hidden family politics start to reveal these years & apparently his family has been like this since last time.

Baby & I discussed about parenting.
I'm pretty sure we'll be great parents.
We have really learned alot throughout the years.
From good examples,& bad examples.

Bad things aside,
it's Christmas eve tml!Yay!
I took half day off to spend time with Baby!!!
Planning to go eastcoast to cycle & maybe eat Hook On Steamboat.
Must faster eat before the whole marina cove revamp. =D

Baby's 21st birthday is more or less decided.
Just need to wait for my salary to come.
I want the best for Baby.
I want Baby to have a fun & enjoyable birthday.
I love him.
& our love will conquer everything.

Our big plans for 2011:
Baby 21st birthday
Trip to Batam
Trying to save for a trip that can take plane,perhaps thailand,if possible.
& our ROM.

We're going to do it regardless what.
No point trying to get their well wishes when you know they are such dupliticious people.

Any idea why I HATE the 7pm show "Ai"?
Because I had enough of such dupliticious people.

I want a simple & happy life.

That's all for today.
Have a Merry Christmas to everyone!

9:22 AM